This might mean reducing sensory and cognitive overwhelm, setting realistic and achievable expectations, and providing regular opportunities for movement throughout the day.
Rethink norms around eye contact—understand that it isn’t comfortable or necessary for all children. In ELC, offer invitations to engage rather than forcing participation. As children move into more structured school environments, there may be more non-negotiable tasks, but your approach still matters. For instance, allowing a child to finish their current activity before transitioning, using ‘now and next’ visuals, maintaining consistent routines, and giving clear preparation for upcoming changes.
Visual timetables support all children, not just those who are neurodivergent.
Creating quiet, calming spaces within the learning environment is also vital. These should always be available, allowing children to access them whenever they need a moment of regulation or downtime.
Be curious about what might be driving a particular behaviour—all behaviour is communication, there is always a reason behind it.
Avoid using shame and blame. This can harm a child’s sense of self-worth and increase feelings of isolation. positive relationships are key to supporting all children, but particularly neurodivergent children.
Above all, remember that our interactions with children have a powerful impact. A small moment—positive or negative—can shape how a child feels, learns, and connects. Strive to make those moments supportive, respectful, and inclusive.
Modelling Respectful and Positive Touch
Staff must always remain mindful that children have different comfort levels and responses to physical touch. Some children may actively seek out affection and physical closeness, while others may prefer to avoid it entirely—and both responses are completely valid.
Adults should prioritise giving children autonomy and choice when it comes to their own bodies. This means seeking consent wherever possible, using language such as, “Would you like a cuddle?” or “Is it okay if I sit here?” to model respectful interaction.
Physical touch should never be used to control or coerce a child. Actions like pulling a child by the hand, repositioning them without consent, or physically guiding their hands to complete a task can undermine their sense of agency and safety.
Instead, foster an environment where touch is always respectful, consensual, and in tune with each child’s individual needs and preferences.

Focused observations are valuable tools for self-evaluation, helping to identify areas for improvement. They also provide factual insights about your service or a child’s experience within the environment.
Once you have worked out the need that the child is communicating through their behaviours, it’s time to put in place some support strategies. Keep in mind that all children are different and what works for one child may not benefit another. Give sufficient time to embed a new strategy, it may not have an impact straight away. Use a Care Plan + to ensure that all practitioners are on the same page and are using the same approaches. Involve families so that similar strategies might be adopted at home.
What is it?
Neurotypical: A person whose brain follows ‘typical’ development in regards to language, learning.
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