{"id":11622,"date":"2020-06-02T19:01:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-02T19:01:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/nl\/cumbernauldprimary\/?p=11622"},"modified":"2020-06-02T19:01:38","modified_gmt":"2020-06-02T19:01:38","slug":"advice-for-parents-helping-your-child-to-feel-included","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/nl\/cumbernauldprimary\/2020\/06\/02\/advice-for-parents-helping-your-child-to-feel-included\/","title":{"rendered":"Advice for Parents – Helping your child to feel ‘Included’"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Information to help your child feel included<\/span><\/h1>\n<\/div>\n
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Connecting<\/strong><\/p>\n

A sense of belonging is fundamental to our psychological wellbeing. Children need to feel connected to family, friends, school and the wider community to feel included.\u00a0 Social media, video chats and Glow learning opportunities provide valuable opportunities to keep in touch. Parents\/carers can play an important role in supporting this process and ensuring it is a positive experience.<\/p>\n

Engaging<\/strong><\/p>\n

In addition to considering online safety it is important to explore children’s feelings about online communication, understand their preferred ways to engage, think about opportunities to build on their interests and skills, support\u00a0connections<\/a>\u00a0with wider groups, as well as prioritising opportunities to support their most valued relationships.<\/p>\n

Encouraging<\/strong><\/p>\n

Including children and young people appropriately in discussions and decisions relating to the process of change can have a positive impact on their self-esteem and wellbeing. Being included in a conversation and being asked our view or opinion on something, can help us feel valued and worthy of taking part. When we’re encouraged to be part of a discussion we are being provided an opportunity to learn how other people cope and problem-solve a situation – often helping us feel less alone or worried as we see that there are others who will include us.<\/p>\n

Listening<\/strong><\/p>\n

Spending time with your child, playing and talking to them about day to day things while having fun, opens the doors for deeper discussion later. Chatting about next steps and what this means for them will be really important.\u00a0 For example, watching Newsround with them, watching their reactions closely, and giving space for them to ask questions will help you to understand what they are really thinking and feeling.\u00a0 It will be important to calmly reassure children that their feelings are understandable and to\u00a0work together<\/a>\u00a0to share ideas of how these feelings can be managed, worries reduced and problems resolved. Try to put your own thoughts and feelings aside while chatting with your\u00a0children so you\u00a0can clearly hear and pick up on what they\u00a0are saying.<\/p>\n

Options<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is important to involve children in conversation about what they would like to do. For younger children, if they find this difficult, offer them choices of a few things to do and help then make a plan for the day. For\u00a0older young people<\/a>, discuss with them what they think is important for them just now and what they’d like to do in the near future. If what they wish to do can’t happen at the moment, plan with them when it might be possible.<\/p>\n

Kindness<\/strong><\/p>\n

The current situation has encouraged numerous acts of kindness within communities. Helping others has been shown to be an effective way of combating feelings of isolation. Involving children in activities where they feel they are\u00a0helping others<\/a>, supports children to have a sense that they are making a valuable contribution.<\/p>\n

Contributing<\/strong><\/p>\n

The COVID-19 situation has sparked a period of anxiety for us all. Having a sense of being able to influence plans will encourage children to express their worries and fears in the knowledge that these will be heard and supported. Involving children in day to day planning will help children feel included and that their views are valued and make a difference. In the long term, this will help children feel more comfortable to contribute to discussion about changes yet to come. It’s important for us all to nurture our capacity to believe the future holds something better and can be achieved through our own actions.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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