{"id":9498,"date":"2024-05-14T13:57:22","date_gmt":"2024-05-14T13:57:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/?page_id=9498"},"modified":"2024-05-14T13:57:22","modified_gmt":"2024-05-14T13:57:22","slug":"positive-relationship-policy-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/positive-relationship-policy-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Positive Relationship Policy"},"content":{"rendered":"<section id=\"builder-section-banner_11\" class=\"builder-section-first builder-section builder-section-banner builder-section-next-panels\" style=\"background-size: cover; background-repeat: no-repeat;background-position: center center;\">\n<div class=\"builder-section-content\">\n<div class=\"builder-banner-slide content-position-none\" style=\"background-image: url(&#039;https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10120041\/Blue-and-Yellow-Modern-Artisan-Parties-and-Celebrations-X-Frame-Banner-6.png&#039;);\">\n<div class=\"builder-banner-content\">\n<div class=\"builder-banner-inner-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section id=\"builder-section-panels_420\" class=\"builder-section-prev-banner builder-section builder-section-panels builder-section-last accordion-mode\" style=\"background-size: cover; background-repeat: no-repeat;background-position: center center;\">\n<div class=\"builder-section-content\">\n<div class=\"ttfmp-accordion-container\" data-height-style=\"\"  data-start-collapsed=\"false\">\n<div id=\"ttfmp-panels-item-title-panels-item_428\" class=\"ttfmp-panels-item-title\">\n\t<\/div>\n<div id=\"ttfmp-panels-item-content-panels-item_428\" class=\"ttfmp-panels-item-content\">\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"9422\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/anti-bullying-policy\/badge-with-border\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10103651\/Badge-with-border.png\" data-orig-size=\"228,325\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Badge with border\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10103651\/Badge-with-border-210x300.png\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10103651\/Badge-with-border.png\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-9422 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10103651\/Badge-with-border-210x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"210\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10103651\/Badge-with-border-210x300.png 210w, https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10103651\/Badge-with-border.png 228w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 210px) 100vw, 210px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">This policy has been written for and by Lainshaw Primary School and has been written in line with East Ayrshire\u2019s Respectful Relationships Framework and takes account of the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC).<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;335551550&quot;:2,&quot;335551620&quot;:2}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Our Vision<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">At Lainshaw Primary School, we promote positive behaviour and respectful relationships within our environment at all times. Children come to school from a variety of backgrounds, and this is always taken into consideration when supporting the individual needs of pupils.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Our shared vision is to create a safe, healthy and caring environment where everyone has an equal and inclusive range of learning opportunities and is valued, encouraged, motivated and supported to achieve their full potential and aspirations.\u202f We show respect, value each other\u2019s views and strive for excellence in partnership with our learning community.\u202f<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Our Values\u00a0<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Following consultation with pupils, parents, staff, community and partners in November 2019, we agreed on our school values. These are:\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Honesty\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Kindness<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Respect\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Our Aims<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> To create and promote a culture of positive relationships and behaviour<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> To ensure that all learners are treated fairly and shown respect<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> To teach appropriate behaviour through positive interventions<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> To help learners take control over their behaviour and develop self-regulation<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> To build a community which values positive attitudes and empathy for others<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> To promote a consistent approach to relationships and behaviour management<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> To provide simple, practical procedures for staff and learners that ensure consistency<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Promote self-esteem and self-discipline<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">How We Promote Respectful Relationships\u00a0<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">At Lainshaw Primary, we believe that a positive learning ethos is key in promoting positive behaviours and learning. We work collaboratively to create this within a nurturing environment. We have clear expectations of what constitutes acceptable behaviour and use a range of effective strategies to promote and value these positive behaviours.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Expectations of Adults<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">We expect every adult to model positive relationships and promote the following visible consistencies and relentless routines:\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Visible Consistencies<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Children are greeted as they enter the school every day<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Build positive, trusting relationships<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Be caring and kind to ourselves and others<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Catch children being good<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Be relentlessly positive\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Relentless Routines<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Walk around school<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Wear school uniform<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Line up smartly inside and out\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">A positive approach is embedded within the policy.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">House System<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">All children in Lainshaw Primary School are allocated a House when they enter Primary 1. Our Houses are led by our P7 Pupil Leadership teams and include:<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><b><span data-contrast=\"none\">Boyd<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><b><span data-contrast=\"none\">Dale<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><b><span data-contrast=\"none\">Reilly<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2713<\/span><b><span data-contrast=\"none\">Taylor<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Through our house system, children can earn house points by being given \u2018purple tokens\u2019 for displaying behaviour which demonstrates the school values and\/or UNCRC articles. Children deposit their tokens into the House Boxes in the main entrance of the school. Additionally, every member of staff in the school is given one golden star token per term which is worth 100 House Points! This is given to any child they notice going \u2018over and above\u2019 in their behaviour, support of another, recognition of others\u2019 rights etc. The House and Vice Captains are rotated to count the tokens every week. At the end of every term, the winning house receives a special treat afternoon!\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Superstar Awards<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Every week at our school assemblies, we hand out Superstar Award certificates to pupils who have shown a commitment to demonstrating our termly focus. Each term, we share with children what our focus is going to be e.g. demonstrating a school value and reinforce this expectation at our assemblies. Any member of staff can choose pupils for this award. As a new addition for session 23\/24, pupils who receive a Superstar Award will also be invited for \u2018Hot Chocolate Friday\u2019 with SMT. Other treats will be available for those who are not hot chocolate fans! This is a special dedicated time where SMT can get a longer opportunity to talk individually with the children and hear about their successes.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Pupil Voice<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Part of building respectful relationships in Lainshaw Primary includes valuing, respecting and acting on the views, opinions and ideas of our pupils. To that end, we have a number of Pupil Voice groups in the school including our Pupil Council, Eco Committee, Rights Respecting School Committee and Outdoor Learning Committee. Additionally, every pupil in P7 is invited to apply for a Senior Leadership position to build skills of leading change.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Class Systems<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Every class will work collaboratively with their teachers to develop an in-class method of positive recognition. Teachers look to celebrate success in learning, success in respecting the rights of others as outlined in the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child and success in demonstrating our school values. Each class has autonomy over this but may include Class Dojo, \u2018Special Gems\u2019 or \u2018Class Raffle\u2019 to name a few examples.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Health and Wellbeing Framework<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Mental and physical health can directly affect our ability to build positive relationships, behave appropriately, develop self-esteem, resilience and self-regulation. At Lainshaw Primary School, we follow the East Ayrshire Council Health and Wellbeing progression planners that focus on helping our pupils be mentally and physically healthy. In addition to this, we also follow the Barnardos PATHS programme which\u202fis a universal, evidence-based, social and emotional learning schools programme for 4-11 year olds which empowers all children to develop the fundamental social and emotional learning skills which will enable them to make positive choices throughout life.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Rights Respecting School<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Lainshaw Primary School is committed to respecting children\u2019s rights with the UNCRC being a crucial part of daily school life. Children\u2019s rights are explored through class lessons, assemblies and whole school events with children having many opportunities to use their voice to promote change. Please see the figure below which shows how the \u2018Getting it Right for Every Child\u2019 Wellbeing indicators align to the range of rights as set out in the UNCRC:<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"9442\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/best-start\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10120214\/Best-start.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"293,306\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;Robinson, Hayley&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1715346118&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Best start\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10120214\/Best-start-287x300.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10120214\/Best-start.jpg\" class=\" wp-image-9442 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10120214\/Best-start-287x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"411\" height=\"430\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10120214\/Best-start-287x300.jpg 287w, https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/public\/lainshawps\/uploads\/sites\/7163\/2024\/05\/10120214\/Best-start.jpg 293w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 411px) 100vw, 411px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">&#8211; The numbers are UNCRC articles, please see <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.unicef.org.uk\/what%20-we-do\/un-convention-childrights\/\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">https:\/\/www.unicef.org.uk\/what -we-do\/un-convention-childrights\/<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> for a summarised version of the UNCRC.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;335551550&quot;:2,&quot;335551620&quot;:2}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">In every class, a class charter is negotiated between pupils and teachers at the beginning of each session. A display is created, showing the UNCRC articles chosen in the class theme. These are monitored and reviewed by the pupils throughout the year. A Whole School Charter is currently in development.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Our Graduated Approach to Challenging\/Unacceptable Behaviour<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Our priority after a pupil has shown unacceptable behaviour is always to focus on the relationships between all people involved. We adopt a restorative approach in most instances, allow all parties to be heard and help individuals to move forward. As a nurturing school, we believe that a child\u2019s behaviour is communication and as such, we encourage staff to ask these key questions:<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> What is happening here?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> What are the possible triggers?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> What is this behaviour communicating?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> What can I do to help?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Ask, Tell, Time Approach<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">This is a staged approach to helping pupils correct and reflect on unacceptable behaviours. We want our children to understand that we will aim to work out the meaning of their behaviour and understand it but boundaries and consequences for unacceptable behaviour are necessary to help us all feel safe and secure.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Aspects of behaviour that do not meet our Lainshaw Primary School values of \u2018Honesty, Kindness and Respect\u2019 have a clear, consistent and logical consequence. The stages reinforce to pupils that they are young and still learning and will therefore be given supportive opportunities to self-correct.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">The following pathway will be followed by all staff aiming to redirect pupils showing unacceptable behaviour:<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Non-Verbal Reminder<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">A positive non-verbal encouragement to follow our school values. This can be a look or gesture, closer teacher presence nearby the learner, a finger on the lips etc.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Verbal Reminder<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">A positive encouragement to follow our school values and show the desired behaviour. Staff will adopt the PACE approach here (Playful, Accepting, Curious and Empathetic) to non-judgementally offer support, ensure the learner has what they need to continue and work out what the root of the behaviour may be.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Ask, Tell, Time<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">If the reminders are ineffective in supporting the pupil to correct then the \u2018Ask, Tell, Time\u2019 approach will then be put into place.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Ask<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> &#8211; a clear verbal prompt delivered privately wherever possible, making the learner aware of their unacceptable behaviour with a final request to correct. \u2018I am asking you to\u2026\u2019<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Tell <\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">&#8211; a second, clear verbal prompt delivered privately wherever possible with the addition of clearly outlining the consequences if they continue. Learners will be reminded of their previous good conduct to prove that they have been able to make good choices. \u2018Now I am telling you to\u2026if this does not happen, we will move to a consequence.\u2019<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Time<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> \u2013 if the pupil has not been able to correct the unacceptable behaviour, it is likely that they have disrupted learning or play time for themselves and others. We promote logical consequences, so at this point the pupil will be required to attend \u2018Reflection Time In\u2019 with a member of teaching staff for either 5 minutes at play time or 5 minutes at lunch time. An email will also be sent home to the parent\/carer that day to inform them of this and the reason for \u2018Reflection Time In\u2019 so they can have a follow-up discussion at home.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">*Pupils will be given a fresh start each day with previous days\u2019 behaviour not held over them. However, if a pupil moves through all the stages of the \u2018Ask, Tell, Time\u2019 approach 3 times in one week, a member of the Senior Management Team will call the pupil\u2019s parent or carer to discuss a more detailed action plan of support.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">* Some behaviours, including violence, will be directed to SMT immediately.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Escalations to SMT (PT~DHT~HT)<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">In the circumstance where a child has gone through the steps of the \u2018Ask, Tell, Time\u2019 approach in one day and persists with unacceptable behaviour, it will be appropriate for the Senior Management Team to be informed. Usually, the pupil will meet with SMT to discuss and reflect on their behaviour with clear actions and consequences agreed. The member of SMT working with the pupil will then call parents\/carers to inform that this has taken place. If appropriate, a restorative conversation will take place with any other affected parties involving the following questions:<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> What happened?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> What were you thinking at the time?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> What have you thought since?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> How did this make people feel?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> Who has been affected?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> How have they been affected?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> What should we do to put things right?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> How can we do things differently in the future?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">In The Playground\/Support Staff<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Our Support Staff were fully included in the development of this policy and will enact and apply the vision, values and aims as teaching staff will. Any incidences of unacceptable behaviour in the playground will be reported to the class teacher at the end of the break time. This allows the teacher to consider the behaviour within the context of the child\u2019s behaviour across the full day. Support Staff may utilise \u2018cool off\u2019 times in the playground to allow them to investigate and de-escalate situations. A member of SMT is always available in each playground for further support.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Individual Support Plans<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Some children struggle more than others with regulated, calm and appropriate behaviour. This can be for a number of reasons including but not limited to trauma, adverse childhood experiences and neuro-diversity. To support these pupils, the DHT or HT will work collaboratively with families and outside agencies where necessary to develop individual plans that help the child to develop and apply the skills they need to behave in a way that is safe, regulated and enables them to experience success.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Exclusion\u00a0<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">In some exceptional cases of inappropriate behaviour, the Senior Management Team may feel it necessary to exclude individual pupils, resulting in pupils being absent from school. We strive to keep such incidents to a minimum, however, where it is necessary, East Ayrshire\u2019s Standard Circular 8 is followed.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This policy has been written for and by Lainshaw Primary School and has been written in line with East Ayrshire\u2019s Respectful Relationships Framework and takes account of the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC).\u00a0 \u00a0 Our Vision\u00a0 At Lainshaw Primary School, we promote positive behaviour and respectful relationships within our environment at &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":16577,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"template-builder.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-9498","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/9498","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/16577"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9498"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/9498\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9499,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/9498\/revisions\/9499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.glowscotland.org.uk\/ea\/lainshawps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9498"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}